Woman Spoils Sister's Surprise Proposal On Snapchat

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Sep 9, 2019 7:00 PM EDT

This woman's sister decided she'd spoil an awesome surprise proposal coming her way, by sharing the spoilers on Snapchat. What a time to be alive. This whole social media thing can contribute to the ultimate undoing of some very special moments, when people don't exercise sound judgment and care. The people of Reddit offered their opinions on whether or not the woman was a jerk for ruining the surprise, and the verdict seems to point at the fact that yes, she done messed up big time. 

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  • 01
    Text - r/AmltheAsshole + JOIN u/literallydumbasfuck 5d AITA for being furious with my sister for spoiling my boyfriend's proposal? Not the A-hole My fiancé (boyfriend at the time of this story) of 2 years told me he had a work trip a couple days ago and that he'd be gone a week. With his job this is normal so I thought nothing of it. Last night my sister randomly bombarded my phone with pictures and Snapchat videos of him and our older brother who he's pretty close with (this is also kind of rui
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  • 02
    Text - I'm furious and I think it's incredibly rude and inappropriate for her to stick her nose where it obviously did not belong. I love my sister and that she loves my fiancé so much and l appreciate how excited she was for me but this was such a dumb thing to do.
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  • 03
    Text - I called her and I told her to stay out of our relationship and to mind her own business and now I feel bad for being mean. For the ages, I'm 25 and she is 19. TShare 6.0k 537
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  • 04
    Text - dmllbit 5d. Certified Proctologist [24] NTA She took something very special away from you and your boyfriend. I get that she was excited but she didn't give an iota of consideration to you or your boyfriend's feelings. I hope it's just immaturity rather than malicious behaviour, but you're not TA for being angry about it!
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  • 05
    Text - carolinemathildes 5d Asshole Aficionado [15] NTA. I can't believe she would think that's the appropriate thing to do.
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  • 06
    Text - Rackalackin 4d Asshole Enthusiast [7] NTA. I don't think your sister was malicious, but she was in the wrong and completely stupid and disregarded your feelings. You have the right to be mad, but I wouldn't let it wreck your relationship or anything. I'd tell her off though. If she was doing it to be malicious though, I wouldn't blame you for completely cutting you off. But she's young, she probably doesn't realize how important this is. Hopefully the proposal will still come as a surpris
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  • 07
    Text - cob9.4d NTA, she's honestly a huge idiot for thinking this is a surprise she's should blow the cover for. I would be furious and considering she's 19 I would probably never tell her anything important, ever again
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  • 08
    Text - aproductof 4d So NTA. This even makes me mad. My brother was starting to ring shop for his girlfriend, so talked to her best friend about it to get some help/ideas. The friend blabbed the whole thing to my brother's GF. Just such a shitty thing to do.
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  • 09
    Text - Kcmii 4d Partassipant [3] NTA. That's just a dick move
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  • 10
    Text - Keanucordonbleu 5d Asshole Enthusiast [8] NTA, she maybe didn't realize she was spoiling it for you, but she should have known better. Hopefully you forgive her but only after telling her how upset you are and that you are really sad you will NEVER get that proposal moment back, and she took it from you. Then I would send and share around pictures of your real proposal with everyone besides her. Let her be the last to know lol
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  • 11
    Text - DickHertz_FromHolden 5d Partassipant [4] NTA Why do people have to post so god damned much on social media, especially when it involves other people.
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  • 12
    Text - ghettobootycentral 4d NTA But who tf was the one who put that on snapchat????
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  • 13
    Text - commadusarelius 5d Certified Proctologist [21] NTA. While she wasn't intending to be an asshole, her actions ruined the surprise so she became TA. She is old enough to know that she should have put aside her own happiness to keep the surprise for you. Yes, you were mean, but her actions caused an appropriate response from you in the heat of the moment. Apologize if it makes you feel better, but she absolutely owes you an apology and an acknowledgement that she messed up. Congratulations o
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  • 14
    Text - bgrein1993. 4d NTA, but you definitely could have been more clear. Just saying "stay out of my relationship" does not explain why you are upset. I hope that you explained more clearly why you were so upset (although at this point I assume you did). She probably thought she was helping, because a lot of movies show people excitedly predicting and women pretending to be surprised when the question is popped. But yeah, dick move. I see where she's coming from but still
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  • 15
    Text - DockingWithMyBros NTA just apologize for yelling but not for being mad about it. I texted my brother "do it yet" the night he was proposing and she saw... they never let me live it down haha.
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  • 16
    Text - Sgt_Smitty 4d NTA, but for the sake of your own sanity try to let this go. You're getting married (yay!) and your brother is home safe from deployment (double yay!). There are more important things to focus on.
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  • 17
    Text - ZenmasterRob. 4d I'm going to say a mixture of NAH and ESH. You have every right to be upset, but she was probably not even considering that fact that it would hurt you. She made a mistake and didn't mean any harm by it. You totally deserve to be mad and to let her know, but definitely don't tear her head off for being an ignorant teenager
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  • 18
    Text - AbdelrahmanKhaled 4d NTA, Ahhhhh, this makes me FURIOUS
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  • 19
    Text - A_Redheads_Ramblings 4d NTA She spoiled what was going to be a nice surprise cause she just had to stick her nose in where it did not belong. And she's 19 not 9. She should know better.
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  • 20
    Text - h-skeletor 5d NTA -she really messed up this up for you and your boyfriend, but you've got to forgive her. You know she was just excited for you and she maybe didn't think how she would feel in your shoes bc she's younger.
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  • 21
    Text - briarrosehasthorns 4d NTA I would never do that to my sister. I'd wait until the proposal to be excited with her.
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  • 22
    Text - jaymoney250 4d NTA why was she even stalking his and your brothers pages anyway?
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  • 23
    Text - dustymop 4d NTA. She needs to get a clue by four if she really is that naive. Don't feel bad at all
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